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The Best Defense

by Coleen Armstrong


No doubt about it, the word defensive has gained a bad rap. But sometimes a teacher needs to be defensive, or at least on guard, especially when whatever goes awry is likely to be perceived as her own mishandling. A few simple precautions will drastically reduce the chances of your being blamed for incidents over which you have little control.

• Don’t take hostile attitudes personally. Children and adolescents are especially quick to anger, and flarings in your direction may have nothing to do with you. Try to rise above them by responding as an impartial, unemotional observer––or better yet, by not responding at all.

• Act “as if.” Even when a child’s personality rubs your nerves raw, you absolutely must treat him/her with polite respect. Try to seek out something endearing about this little person; the mere act of doing so may cause you to find it. Otherwise, at least when he accuses you in front of his parents of not “liking” him, the words will ring hollow in his throat.

• Never lose your temper. Do whatever you must to guard against any screaming hissy fits. Not only will they make you appear unbalanced; they’ll also provide handy fuel with which to burn you later during a parent conference. And never hold a grudge. You are a dignified, disciplined adult, not someone who punishes children by giving them the silent treatment. Setting a proper example may seem like a frustrating, fruitless endeavor––but 20 years later, your nobility may be recalled with great respect.

• Store all papers. You’ll need to keep up-to-date files to prevent any student’s claiming that you lost all of his completed assignments, and he’s therefore entitled to an A. Blank lines in your grade book and an empty manila folder will provide excellent backup. You needn’t devote six precious hours each week to filing; hire a trustworthy kid from another grade level (and therefore with no interest in making things disappear). Reward him/her with fast food certificates.

• Document every altercation. All disciplinary incidents must be logged with dates, times, descriptions, and dialogues. Do not allow yourself to be blind sided months later by someone who suddenly claims you’ve always had it in for him/her. Open your spiral notebook and begin reading aloud. Your credibility with both parents and administrators will soar.


Coleen Armstrong is the author of The Truth About Teaching: What I Wish The Veterans Had Told Me, available through www.inspiringteachers.com. Coleen taught secondary English, German, and Spanish in the Hamilton (Ohio) City School District for 31 years. During that time she won both state and national recognition, awards which included Ashland Oil's Teacher Achievement Award in 1992, WKRC-TV's Outstanding Teacher Award in 1993, and being named one of five finalists for the National Teachers Hall of Fame in 1996. Her first book, co-authored with Warren County superintendent John Lazares, Please Don't Call My Mother: How Schools and Parents Can Work Together To Get Kids Back on Track was published by Parenting Press in Seattle in 2001.

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Human beings, by changing the inner attitudes of their minds, can change the outer aspects of their lives.
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